I whole heart-idly agree! if a grown woman has reached the point that she would rather not speak a single word to you, and climb onto a bus that leads to being committed for easter weekend without the courtesy of saying "I dont feel good, leave me alone" or "im going away, please feed the cat" then its time to find higher ground.

its really hard to take care or parent someone who doesnt want to be parented. As they say, you can lead a horse to water, but you cant make him drink. What they dont tell you about that picture is how much energy and soul sucking it takes for the rider of that horse to get it to the stream. Please, take this time to step back and realize what YOU need to go forward. Realize what YOU need to make YOUR life better, and take this chance to go get it. Have a home without the stress, guilt, fear, or manipulations. Have a place to come home to where YOU can work on YOU. where YOU can heal YOUR wounds.

Im sorry it had to end this way, but perhaps a new beginning for both of you is just what the doctor ordered.