There seem to be so many ideas.

I start to feel really bad reading all these studies about obesity or diabetes or whatever. In reality I was the happiest and healthiest in my life. Not obese, not diabetic, not using drugs, not even drinking coffee, or soda or overtaking the sugar. I was however, an older mother. <sigh> So when do we stop being "blamed" or focused on or indeed stop blaming ourselves for what is really a gift.

Oh yeah. It's maybe hereditary?!

Sorry Chemar. That wasn't directed at you.
You know how much I love learning and reading new research and embrace its challenge for us all.
I just get tired some nights wondering about all the what ifs.