Hi. Thank you! Yes, I've been working from home 2 days a week for quite some time... I just recently requested and was approved to work 3 days a week.... I work so hard, regardless of whether it's at home or the office, and my job is pretty stressful.... It seems that I use any energy I have to make sure no one can tell (except for my close friend there) what a hard time I'm having... Your suggestion makes perfect sense... My Mother said the same thing just this week! I had finally told my boss, but she is very cold and so I kept it very high level, no low level details... She is very unemotional, so I told her just the bare info she needed to know... I still don't think she 'gets it' though. I've thought about even requesting to get put on the next layoff list... I love my career so much... it's heartbreaking to think I wouldn't have it anymore, but I know I can't keep doing this... so thanks for that suggestion. I guess I need to hear that. My neurologist has also told me maybe I'm killing myself to do something that I really shouldn't be doing anymore.....I thnk another part of it is that I've been kind of a 'rock star' there for years and now I would have to possibly leave on a bad note, leaving behind a less than stellar 'legacy'... I know that's all ego and pride and I need to drop it, but I've worked so hard in this man's world to get where I'm at... and now I may need to stop covering and start letting my flaws show... I guess that what it comes down to.... that's hard for some reason. 'm on my own and also my son is still depending on me, so not sure what I would do... but I better start figuring it out..... Thanks for the kind words and for the encouragement. It means a lot. - Denise (babycakes)
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Originally Posted by gpridgen46
Oh Babycakes,
You are having a time of it.  And since it is getting so bad maybe try to to cover up any more at work. Have you talked to them about going part time or working some from home?
Geri
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