Hi Billie, that is what I did with the lady down the street. Everytime someone from her church showed up when I was there I told them she needs help. Well I guess I told enough people so they finally stepped up to the plate. She was a different religion than I and I was sure tired of hearing how great her religion was and here i was doing everything for her. So speak up and let them know somehow. You are a very nice person to do for her but there comes a point when you just have to step back no matter how bad it makes you feel.

Anne, did you quit the cymbalta under dr's orders? I am not sure but I don't think you are supposed to just stop that type of medicine suddenly without tapering off. Maybe you should post under medications, I am sure someone there can tell you for sure. ...Sue