Thanks all

I have a docs appt on the 20th and will talk to them then. I am glad I had at least mostly stopped the oxy, I took one early on before i realised I was pg...
I find it's position a lot of the time, I have never slept on my back before, now it's the only position that doesn't cause pain, but I often wake up in pain on my side... I need an arch of pillows or something. A new matress would probably help too :/