Thank You for your post.
My wife is 2 years past her TBI and I was beginning to wonder if our marriage was at an end due to our lack of intimacy (3 times in 2 years). We had a very fun, loving even playful marriage prior to her injury. Now she has little interest or desire for anything including me. I love my wife immensely and "missing" her very much. I find it hard to discuss this with her because she thinks I am criticizing her or being selfish. I only want to have a deeper understanding of what is happening to our life together.
I think reading your post has helped me realize that her attitudes toward me and "us" isn't something I should take personally but rather something I should learn to accept as just the way it is and learn to re-charter our path together.

Sorry for such a rambling reply, but reading your post helped me to understand and not be so confused and hurt.