Hi Paul in Canada,
The issue with anger and especially depression is well known to me. There are a number of things besides drugs that might be of some benefit to you.
I donīt know how you currently cope with your TBI related issues, but I can mention a few things that have helped me or others:
1) Breathing techniques are a way to make you more relaxed when bouts of anger surface. These techniques calm the body and reduces stress levels:
http://www.drweil.com/drw/u/ART00521...exercises.html
2) Art therapy for depression is an interesting approach in getting out feelings of anger and despair and can be done at home by anyone:
http://www.nursingschools.net/blog/2...body-and-soul/
http://www.ehow.com/video_7876588_ar...epression.html [short video]
3) I often listen to relaxing music on youtube, where rain forest sounds and thunderstorms are amongst my favorites:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b_Wey...eature=related
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t8iip...eature=related
4) A self help book that has helped many people cope with depression is "
Feeling Good" by David D. Burns. It didnīt do much for me but many people benefited from this book:
http://www.amazon.com/Feeling-Good-T...5377401&sr=8-3
5) Lastly we have cognitive behavioral therapy done by psychologists or brain injury support groups run by volunteers that might also benefit.
-GlassHead