Thank you all for your replies

Both of my parents were alcoholics, and so was my maternal grandmother and uncle (he quit drinking years ago tho).
My husband has admitted he's an alcoholic, but denies it at other times. He's up and down on the amounts. Sometimes he won't stop. Others he says he can cut back, but can only do it temporarily.
So, this hasn't improved, and neither has our sex life. He just wants to sit on the couch (usually with a beer), with the TV on, and often he's playing a game on his phone or computer.
I get pecks on the mouth, but whenever I try to tongue kiss him he tells me he isn't in the mood.

The zoloft gave me constant terrible headaches. I lasted about 3 weeks and tdoc agreed I could cut the dose from 50-25mg. I stopped 2 weeks ago because of the other wonderful side effect: It was blatantly obvious that I'm manic. I saw the tdoc today and she increased my lithium.

I've had to return 4 pairs of glasses!!! The bones behind my ears are pronounced and 2 places haven't been able to fit me without causing headaches and pitting back there- even after I showed them how my current pair is bent. I guess I'm a PITA, but I refuse to spend that kind of dough on glasses I can't wear. I just went to a new place, and the OD really sounds like she knows what she's doing. I picked my frames out and they have my script, but my insurance site wasn't running. She said she'd call today, but no word. I'll call tomorrow. I get transitions, too.

Sorry I've been going MIA so much. I still love you all!
Kay