I enjoy getting an invite, as many have 'forgotten' those who are different/ill, etc. I also try to remember that while I live this everyday and know how hard is is to get to the door, etc, I have to remind myself that others who call on me don't really know - even if I tried to explain it to them. Heck - until I joined the ranks of those with a disability I didn't truly "get it" either.

not telling you your feelings are wrong - just trying to give a different perspective to think about it. I don't think that women meant anything other than trying to be welcoming to you.