Hi VIctoria,

I don't have any advice to add. I do want to add a couple of {{hugs}}

Please go easy on yourself, physically and emotionally. I can relate to the irritability .
You are a sweet, intelligent, caring person, who has so much to add to this world. Keep your eyes open so you can see it when it falls in front of you.
I hope you can feel all the gentle hugs coming your way.

Hope