thank god every day my husband is in good health..basically. we recently found out when he has to be out of work a week it sets us back months. they dont ask if im alright, they just saw let me do it or want help? grrrr if im struggling then yes i need help if u see me crying from then do it for me. i already feel like an invilid. they know i csnt zip my coat or wash my hair or tie my shoes or use a can opener...i cry i blow up because i have no other way, i tried just going to bed and they bug me so that dont work. i miss out on school things for fear of being bumped or its too cold out to go. i cant reel in a fish anymore so fishing is out too