First Mindy, Welcome to our room, its the best place for some comfort and hugs.
I don't have any answers except to say. I've been were you are at. And its not a easy road. It sounds like you have help with this. Which is something that is imperative.
Suicide watchs are very hard on all involved. Its not something that a outsider can understand. Unless they have gone through one.
So don't be discouraged if friends and other family members don't seem
to understand.
Look for a local Nami chapter, they will have a family member chapter.
Sorry I cant remember what its called. That can help you learn to cope
with the issues.
Keep coming in and talking to us. We will listen.
Donna