Well said Maria. I wish it was that easy though. My brother is married to my sister n law that live in the same house. I have a very good relationship with my brother that I would like to continue until I die. So that’s hard as well to say good bye to.

You would think after all of the suicides that have been happening she would say do what makes you happy and it’s ok to come by once a year with no drama. But nope it’s got to be my life is the best, you need to have the same life, and take care of my needs, or the highway. It’s very sad that my brother does not see this. At the same time I think he does, he just doesn’t want to be alone. This is very sad.