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Originally Posted by burton975
You would think after all of the suicides that have been happening she would say do what makes you happy and it’s ok to come by once a year with no drama.
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Hi, Burton,
You are doing great now.
Keep in mind that she is never going to do anything helpful for you. She has been doing this since she was very young and will not change.
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Originally Posted by burton975
and take care of my needs, or the highway.
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Yes!
You explain it very well.
The only way I know to handle a narcissist is to simile a lot and keep quiet.
http://www.psytalk.info/articles/narcissist.html
The best avenue is to limit contact as much as possible.
When and if your brother is ready, he will make changes. For now, respect him and focus on yourself as you have been doing.
M