I've discovered that even the people who seemingly "have it all" really don't.
The ones who seem to stay amazingly young looking usually spend an incredible amount of time focused on just that......and miss out on the truly wonderful moments in life. Who wants to spend 50% of their life trying to halt time....and the other 50% trying to keep up with folks who are much younger and faster?!
I think most everyone has their challenges even if it doesn't appear so at first glance. Heck, even
I don't appear to have problems immediately....but if you look long enough you'll see that I do.
For me, the solution is to be happy in the moment. Because this exact moment is really all we have. And if this is "as good as it gets" then I'm okay with that.