Crystal,

I'm sorry to hear about your continued struggles. Is there some way you can set aside a good length of time (months, maybe even a year or more) to just rest and recover and live a very low-key life with minimal obligations and sources of stress? Can you delegate some key responsibilities to others during this period, with the understanding that you this will benefit you and your family in the long run (i.e., by allowing you to maximize your recovery)?

I have been extremely lucky in that I have been able to do this over the last year. My significant other has been incredibly patient and understanding, and has helped create a (temporary) protected, low-responsibility, low-stress environment for me. I still have a ways to go, but this has made a big difference in my recovery.