I do understand, as I have been in your shoes. I have had two cervical fusions. Last was 22 months ago, C3-7. This did give relief, but no where near 100%. I didn't really have a choice in this surgery when it came right down to it. I sought out mulitpal surgeons and got opinions. I had the very best of care with the surgeon I received. I can only tell you that for me, the surgery was worth it. Make sure the verterbre above and below the proposed sugery site that they are STRONG. Any hardware you have installed will put alot of stess on those verterbre. This has happened to me. C1-2 shows stress and so does T1-2-3-. I am not going to do any more surgery if I can help it. The last was hard enough. I do wish you all the best in what ever decision you make. It is very difficult I know, and so is the pain from cervical and spine issues. Take care....ginnie