So the um er thing is normal? Thank God! I was starting to think my mind was in melt down.. my dad referred to me as having a catch phrase as apparently I frequently say 'Where is the thingy?' And then go 'um.. you know.. the thingy. the thing.. um.. oh.. what's it called? Um.. you know... that thing..'
Which normally, most people can get from our conversation, but if not, it's cripplingly embarrassing, and I don't have a hope at announcing the object I'm trying to mention.. More annoyingly.. I can picture in my head.. before I've ended up describing it.. Phone because 'um the thing with the buttons and numbers.. um.. er.. you talk to people.. on it.. you know um.. er.. the... um..' With people I don't know.. it's so horrible..