I'm of the opinion he will not want the can of worms of the situation
with the case of the molestation opened up.

And the judge made a big deal that it would be. That the police, and
the dcs. And everything would happen.

So to me if he wants all that to happen it would be in his ballpark.
I know that in the case of my granddaughter she can handle all of it
being retold again.

She relives it daily inside her head. I think maybe if she had to go to
court and tell it again. It might make her start to be able to heal after
its over. I personally think that might be part of the reason she still
has so much anger. Is because nothing never came of her having to
tell the story so many times.

So if it goes to the court room finally i think she will have closeure. The
only place she still tells the story is in her theropy ? cant spell the word.

With her mom's past she was good about getting her help right away. And
she makes sure if she needs to talk about it she knows to ask for her therapist. And she can talk at home if necessary. But its not something
that is made to happen, so it looks like it was coached. Hopefully
that makes sense.

Donna