While my sister was here last weekend visiting she kept saying "we've got to think of something you can do".


I finally asked her what she meant. She said I needed a hobby or something to keep me busy.
I told her I was fine with what I do right now. I know to her it doesn't seem like I do alot but to me it does.
What I do varies from day to day. It depends on how I'm feeling that particular day. I tried to explain to her that's why I don't make plans for Thursday on Monday or Tuesday. Or even Wednesday!
I don't think she gets it.....and I don't expect her to. But I do expect her to respect my judgment and my limitations. I know what I can and cannot do. And I don't need to hear "just try" or "just do it" or "take a chance".