For Mother's Day DS (20) gave me a joint, saying "It's an unconventional present but you said you wanted some" He and his twin sister found it all hilarious and some of their friends do know and giggled. DD was a little amazed at me knowing what to do (hey, I went to HS in the 70's). Smoking is way too harsh for me throat, I like the ease of popping my Vicodin, MJ didn't seem better to me but if things changed, I'd try MMJ seriously.