My two cents on attending events. It sounds like you are going and that you have figured out what you need to do to make it through the events. Terrific!

When I am invited somewhere, or asked to do something and I decline, I struggle with people being surprised that I am still recovering after four months. (I am not cleared to drive. I work half days and take a nap every day).

I am a teacher and a lot of parents say that to me. I talked about this with my doctor and she said to just say something like " Yes, I am still recovering. My doctor and I have a plan for a complete recovery and that includes fill in the blank. Thank you for your understanding"

Sometimes it helps to throw in the word doctor every now and then. Even to mom's. My mom asks me how I am. I tell her about my week. She just listens to me and then says "oh my. good luck with all that." Not helpful!