I know this day is hard for you hon, my heart goes out to you..
My ma still gets a little meloncholy on her and my dads aniversry and he has been gone since 89. Ma decided that she would celebrate the good things they shared the good times on special dates, I think she was origionaly doing it for us but we discussed it recenty on their aneversary March 1st and she said it has realy helped her to deal with it in that way.

An me I still have a coors light beer on my dads birthday out on the pacific ocean and one for him too of cource, I still tell him everything and he still listens very well well . In the silence and the surf I can still feel his presence and the comfort.