I've been wondering the same, Barbo.

I've been sorting through some up and down times but nothing compares to what you're dealing with dearest (((((Abbie)))) and (((((Marshmallow))))) friends... I am so proud of both of you. Your words are never a burden as they help remind me how resilient you/we all are!

Abbie... I wish you peace... let go of the anger that this latest blow has dealt to you ... I've seen you do it, time and time again... and thank goodness for that wonderful donation - someone knew what it would mean to you all!

Marshmallow... I wish you even more strength than you already have! Bravo for standing proud and being who you are through all the challenges your family deals out to you!

I know there's a few of us who are really dealing with a lot right now... its understandable... our worlds, right before our eyes... are changing...
I think the economy and everyday news is exacerbating our already precarious situations...

That's why we usually fall silent.... we get a little overwhelmed...