I feel a little better this morning. Sometimes talking it out with friends who care, is great medicine..

I will be talking to my PCP and I know he will help me, as he has in the past.
As far as DD, I have told her what you have all suggested, but she is stubborn (wonder where she gets that

) and insists on getting through this without crying on my shoulder every day.

I'm torn between not wanting to know what that (bad bad name inserted here) is doing and wanting to help her. I guess I am helping by not helping.
Thanks for all you comfort and suggestions. I love you.