You are right on track with finding a doctor. I do the same thing, and research qualifications. That ability to listen is so very important. May I also suggest you keep a journal to write down all your symptoms, when they occur, intensity, duration. Most pain physicians respect a patient when they keep track of what is happening to them. I hope you find some compassion in that doctor too. I interviewed 3 before I chose one. I wish you all the best. ginnie