With my MS there ARE times that I am not sure about what I saw. There are times I cant remember what I saw, so when I DO speak up, you can bet your bottom dollar I am SURE of what I saw, and I dont need some busy body to tell me im wrong.

#1 isnt that RUDE? when someone tells you something to tell them they are wrong?

#2 how can they possibly know what you did or didnt see? I KNOW what my fav color is, why would you want to tell me I dont know my own mind?

#3 it makes someone who is sick and struggling NOT want to talk to you! then you get upset that I dont stop when I am walking to chew the fat with you. Well, if you call me a liar half the day you bet your bippy I dont want to talk to you.

its not one person in my circle that does it. lately its several and when the DH jumped on the bandwagon I blistered him. I told him I was hearing that nonsense from others and he didnt need to mimic the bad neighbors. He apologized and hasnt done it since.