I really appreciate all of your support. Sometimes dying, like living is about choices and I understand that it's hard to accept someone else's choice when it differs from your own. Throw in LOVE and it can really cause chaos.

As I told one of my friends daughters, having the time to make some of those choices can be a mixed blessing...different than a sudden, unexpected death..(Michael comes to mind).

My friend liked her older daughters suggestion that she donate her body to the IU Med center for research and wants to do that. Her younger daughter can't stand that idea because she works at that hospital and knows what they do to the bodies. (she of course doesn't say that to her mom..just her siblings.)

"The Next Place" can't come soon enough!

Hugs for the room.