Hi Nicol,
I'm sorry to hear that you are struggling with RSD. I've had RSD since I was 19 years old and now I'm 28. I know how truly difficult it can be to have RSD so young; although, at any age it is terrible. I've lost a lot of friends, not to mention jobs, hobbies etc...If you ever need to talk, or cry or vent, we are all very supportive on this board.
Just curious what area of Cali are you from? I'm living in Sacramento with my parents.
Take care!