Welcome to Neuro Talk. I am sorry to hear how hard it is for you and your family. Glad you found this site, there are alot of compassionate folks here. I came here for the same reason you did. I am fused C3-7 and do understand your pain. What leesa said is right. Get an attorney to help you with the process of disability. It took me four years, before I received help. Financially I was ruined, so that too has happened to me. Stay close to your family if you can and keep coming back here. Post all your questions, and someone will help you. I sure will talk to you anytime too. ginnie