We get/understand all that -- believe me. You're not alone.
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Most times when people ask me how I am doing I say I'm fine when I'm not.
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Then you may be ahead of the curve (or I was slow). That's one of the "games" we play -- there are several threads on different forums about just that. Those of us who actually told people the truth found it alienates a lot of folks who either don't understand or don't really want to know, and since socializing is so important, telling that little fib is a forgivable hypocrisy (though not everyone views it that way) I can live with. That's why I save pain-talk for here, etc.
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