You are right. We only share our pain with those that we trust. I do the same thing. I have learned very fast, on who your friends really are. It is those that stay in your corner, and offer help and encouragement when you are at your worst. Sometimes family members don't do that at all. I have a family member removed themselves from my life all together. You can't control how another feels about you. We do have friendships here Pebble. I keep coming back for the same compassion we all need. Take care of yourself. ginnie