I have to have a pocket for them to sit in, or they slide under and out. if they are not held secure, when I lean forward, they do a back flip and land on the floor. I have picked them up and kept moving more times than I can count. The new mastectomy bras have enclosed pockets, so once they are in there, they are in there. They have tradition closures tho and Whooo! too tight! I feel like I have broken ribs and someone put a tight belt on me.

Right now I am using a front closing bra and I undo the bottom 2 or 3 clips. It leaves only 1 or 2 holding the whole thing together, but I cant stand it!

I really do look obvious when i go without. its clear I have NO breasts. not just tiny ones, its clear there is something wrong. I just struggle between looking normal enough to not have folks stare, and being bent over in pain. DH always says "who cares?! let um look" I love that man.