I agree with Catra. It would be really good for them to see you at your worst. I know it sucks, but...
Stormy weather does the same to me...I'm so sorry you feel this way. Just do what you can. If you go to the IME and they can't touch you...then they can't touch you and that's the end of your IME, unless the are also making you see a psychologist. Good Luck! :Gentle Hugs: