Hi Micki I am new to this site as well , I live in the UK, a few years ago I met a new partner after 9 years being on my own and after the first sexual situation I was in extreme pain and bleeding, it sounds as if you have a regular partner and still bleeding frequently, you need to see a doctor ASAP I saw my GP after my first encounter who immediately made an appointment for me to see a gyno.
My story is I had an internal US and an examination of my cervix(no pain whatsoever) which all came back clear. I am lucky that there was nothing un towards. I went for my regular smear test 6 months ago and I got a call back with minor changes,I have now had the said smear and awaiting the results.
You need to see your GP ASAP you are a bit older than me I am 57 so please make an appiontment tomorrow. Take Care Marie xx