I've understood from reading a lot of people's stories that I have the opposite problem from most, so I'm the one who's the exception.

My boyfriend I think has a bit of a hero complex and hooked up with me officially about two months after my injury, so he was well aware of what he was getting.
The reason I try so hard to show improvement even on bad days is that I don't want him to get burned out or lose hope about our future. It feels like the reason I have trouble sex-wise now is because I'm so vulnerable and moody, and my self-control has gone way down.
That is not always a nice thing, I've always been disciplined about myself, or tried to be, but now it feels like I could through a lot of that out the window without a care. That's alarming.