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Magnate
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Join Date: Aug 2006
Posts: 2,871
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Magnate
Join Date: Aug 2006
Posts: 2,871
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Hi Gang
I had been in there little bits of time. It will sure be more difficult spending long periods and the permance hitting me.
I have my daughter in law, she is a butt kicker to organize and get through things too. She and my son will eventually build on the lot where the mobile home is. With the weather nice this weekend we will take the tree down so that Deb knows how to put it up this Christmas, they need one anyway.
I had a time line on me becasue of the free community cleanup. But, in all, the entire trailer will have to be torn down for the new home to be built. My grandma, dad after my parents divorce all lived there...it is very, very old. A one bedroom that is only 100+ feet away so it was so close to allow De her personal space and close enough for me with caring for her...
There are tons of clothes, minimal furniture. A lot of videos, most things like dishes pots, and food are just going out in clean up. Nothing worth even a yard sale.
Some of the most difficult will be the pictures, highschool stuff and outfits I picture her wearing.
The clothes, gosh she has tons all over, on the bed are bags full, in the closet thrown, the dresser drawers and just thrown in the corners. I bet a dozen yard size bags full. I know she has barrowed so many of my things so I do have to go through them all.
I recently found out several checks were issued to her that she was to reimburse me for forwarded funds....she cashed them and acted like they never came. i was really counting on them.
Nothing of any value but her car. She smashed the windows in the car so it will be difficult to sell unless I fix them. It has been sitting since 2001...1995 Mercury Capri convertable. It is a mess, lucky to get $1,000.
I am still sorting through feelings, emotions, and trying to figure out who was this child of mine?
I still forget sometimes...I saw a microwave heating pack, a stuffed Kitty. I thought Oh, de will love this! For the brief moment. I do that a lot, a slip so fleeting.
Sorry to ramble, tough to make sense of the loss, her life, our life without her..
Thanks for all the support  
Di
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