Thanks Curious

Darlene

I'm glad to hear you have a close relationship with your son-in-law, though it was probably a little frustrating when your daughter was separated from him. Glad they were able to work things out.

My father was very particular. He liked my ex, but not after he found out my ex hurt me. He never liked anyone else. When I started dating my husband and introduced him to my father, I was amazed at the look of approval on his face. My "Ray of sunshine" helped me care for my parents, and dad acted as if the sun rose and set by him. Mom even liked him. Cracks me up when my husband says mom was "sweet." HAAAAA! Oh well, glad he gave her a thrill.

When my dad's condition became grave, it was obviously very stressful. I got into a heated argument with Ray about hospice care - I wasn't ready to sign him over.

Dad called me into his room and with the little breath he had left told me not to do anything to lose my boyfriend. Wasn't fair - he ALWAYS took my side when it came to arguments with boyfriends. I tried to defend myself by saying he's too stubborn, but dad said "So are YOU - find a way to compromise. Now send in Ray."

He gave Ray the same lecture.

I do believe a loving parent knows what's best for his/her child.