I'm so sorry that the neurofeedback has caused these issues!! This is rather alarming. As if the headaches weren't bad enough, then to be suffering with depression also! I've battled depression for the greater part of my life, so I can sure empathize.
There's gotta be a way to rise above this with the right kind of support/therapy. But like you say, you have sought help from countless resources to no availe.

Maybe if you post this over on the depression forum, others would see it better. Here's the link to take you there:
http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/fo...aysprune=&f=37

This person is fortunate to have you here seeking help and information.
Also, have you tried googling "negative results from neurofeedback"?
Not that I trust everything there is out there on the web. I'm hoping you'll be able to find a way to pinpoint more info about this.

Have you tried getting in contact with a good psychologist or psychiatrist? I am seeing a psychiatrist for my depression/anxiety and it seems to be helping quite a bit.

Hoping that answers will come your way SOON.

Rae