Glad to meet you through NT. Just thought to tell you, that sometimes people do accuse disabled folks of using that as a crutch. You know as well as I do that usually isn't the case at all. Most people really have and struggle with those issues we present here. Just pray for that person, and hope her own health problems can be resolved. I hope you are OK, and that your own medical issues have some resolution too. Have a good rest of the day. ginnie