Hi Blue,
I wish I could tell you something to make you feel better... it sounds you and I have pretty much the same problem.

The difference is that you seem to keep meeting new people, and as long as you keep meeting new people your chances of finding someone special can only get better.
I try not to worry about those "empty" people; they're not in it for anything real, they have no depth in their personality, and are probobly much less likely to find love because of it. And if this guy is only interested in "empty" women, then he's probobly not looking for anything real himself, and you deserve someone who is ready for a
real woman.
Or maybe he's sick of all the "empty" girls and is waiting for someone like you to come along.