O M G! I am so angry, hurt, confused and upset. My DD 28 has been having issues with her live in b/f. After her house caught fire they lost everything. Well, the house is rebuilt now, and they just got appliances and filled the home with lovely new things and had insurance money to boot. She got up in the middle of the night about a week ago to use the toilet and saw he wasnt in bed. She heard talking on the porch so she went to the window, saw he was alone, but over heard him on the phone talking about "i love you too, and I cant wait to see you too, and as soon as I get the insurance money im outta here!" style conversation. After a long pause she decided to not confront him and go to bed.

The next morning she hacked into his email and found him on 6 different dating websites and he has 6 other g/fs telling them the same thing! Tons of emails to these different women telling them how awful she is and how he cant wait to be with them...She packed his stuff put it out on the curb and changed the locks. He moved in ACROSS THE STREET! with a friend. just yesterday he got the keys to his new apartment closer to his work and away from her. He has called every friend, every family member and anyone they ever met to say how he messed up, he didnt mean it, he loves her, and cant live without her. she kept his guns till he was more stable.

He came over last night to do insurance paperwork so he can get the rest of what is owed him, he begged for the return of his grandfathers gun. He saw the baby gun key on her keyring that was on her bag and they wrestled for it. He is 6'6" and she is 5'6' she has celiac and not a strong woman, and he is a landscaper who throws lawn mowers on and off trucks all day. He forced her on the ground, took the key, and she was smacking, screaming and biting on him as she got to her feet. He held her face to the wall, and pulled the trigger. in his her new home!

Clearly she is beyond upset. He betrayed her by being with other women, she had stood her ground and demanded he see a counselor, which he was and the counselor even told my DD to not release any items to him that he could harm himself with. She asked the counselor to admit him to the hospital,and he said there was no direct threat.

My DD is driving in this direction shattered. Not only did he cheat on her, lie to her, deceive her for a long time, now he has committed this awful act of violence on her. I was so proud of her when she called HIS parents to go get him, make his arrangements and take care of whatever they needed to take care of, because she refused. The Medical examiner took almost 6 hours to come claim the body, so she couldnt even go home and cry or get her meds, or anything. what an awful night.

Can you say a prayer for my sweet child?