Heya

Ada - I think one of the reasons that people sometimes get missed is that some of us that struggle with concentration/ vision rubbish automatically look for names on threads that we know - shouldn't do it I know, but I suppose it's trying to keep up with whats happening - I find that I can very quickly lose track of what has happened if I'm not careful to at least try and skim some posts.....Also, I find there are some posts that I want to comment on - but that I have nothing to say... some of your deeply personal posts about you and Bill for instance - I read them and want to offer support - but it's hard to know how to do that when I have never been in the situation you are in - and I don't want to trivialise it by comparing it to anything that's happened in my life - meaning that I can't empathise with you - and sometimes I fear that sympathy is not always useful.

I wish we could have a button that was "I am thinking of you" or something - just to say the person was in our thoughts even if we aren't up to replying or maybe haven't got anything useful to offer.

As Artist said a while ago the whole spectra of this forum seems to be changing and perhaps as members we have to try and keep up with the changes...

Thanks for your post - I didn't really think about how much I reply to people I do know etc until it.

Love

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