So sorry you are going through this. I know how tough it is on DI and how hard, or should I say, impossible, it is to get SSDI. How anyone is expected to live with no income for up to three years! I am on CA state DI now and talked to an attorney who gave me the news that I would be without income for a minimum of one year. I have opted to go back to work, rather than wait and lose everything. I am looking for a job now that pays about 50% less than my last job.
Hang in there if you can, and I hope you can, because if you are disabled, you will eventually win. I hope for your sake it is soon.