Hi, ((((((Jacquie)))))),
I'm glad that you daughter's not pregnant. The time's just not right for that.
I'm sorry, though, that she seems to have so much loss and sense of failure around her.
Don't you sometimes just wish that there were a way for you to transfuse your knowledge into your child so that they didn't have to go through all this stuff again
A good resource for understanding losses of every kind are the books by Rabbi Earl A. Grollman.
I hope that your daughter realizes that even though she's been going through 7734, her steps are being guided. She needs to pay attention to where she's going so that she can use this knowledge that she's paid such a high price to obtain.
Bless you all. BIG HUGS (and love).
Barb
PS: I'm going to the beach tomorrow. Wish you could come too. Across the street from here:
http://www.theredparrot.com/index.htm. Isn't it beautiful!!