Thanks so much, everyone, for your replies! You've all given me a lot to think about. I think it's all going to depend on when and if I meet someone. My on and off boyfriend of five years is 14 years older than I am and says he doesn't want any more children. This has been one reason were "off" more than on. The only thing I can say - in the plus column - is that he's a physician assistant (as am I), so he does understand RSD. He's seen it clinically several times. I am the first person I've seen with - but I'm an FP PA. Anyway, a lot to think about. Tiffany