Dear Mari
I am really sorry to hear of all this going on. I hope the gabapentin was helpful and that you got through your work alright and got some sleep.
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As for hubby. WOW. I'm sitting here trying to figure out if his "game"
is all about him, his own little world (autistic-like)
OR
if it has to do with you... an instigatory thing....
the first would need to be dealt with of course - if he wants to play games by himself he needs to do so in a physical space where hs noises won't interfere with you.
the second idea is completely chilling. if that is the case he is a piece of work. i hope you can find ut what is oiiing on, and that he is nicer today. maybe it was just poor choice of wording and things can be worked out.
i send lots of love and many hugs with the hope things work out well.
~ waves ~