Hi,

My tdoc and my internist have told me he likely has OCD.

I think he has OCD Personality Disorder:

http://psychology.about.com/od/perso...essivecomp.htm

Individuals with obsessive-compulsive personality disorder typically experience:

• A significant preoccupation with perfection, control, and order
• Rigid behaviors, resistance to change, and inflexibility
• Often described as dependable, rigid, stern, and stubborn
• Feelings of helplessness in uncontrollable situations

This list describes him completely.
Tdoc has said that he provides structure for me.

Most of the time we can balance each other. Friday evening after a difficult work week when we are stressed we should stay away from each other in different rooms in order to avoid a blow out.

M