I totally agree with everyone. You both need to start a relationship being honest with each other. There may be things about him that he's reluntant to tell you but if he realizes that you have the courage to tell him about your MG diagnosis he may open up too. And you can support each other.

I'm lucky that my MG/SPS diagnosis came after I had been married for 30 years. Of course my husband could have left me because he couldn't handle the uncertainty but from the beginning he told me that he wasn't going anywhere and we were going to fight this together. You have no idea how comforting that made me feel because I scared to death. I know alot of marriages breakup over money or illness so I feel very lucky.

Best of luck in whatever you decide.

Southern Bell