((Addy)) Sure hope you don't feel pushed by anyone here! You already know all too well all we really can do is share and hope something we say helps.
Now...in our delicate conditions

you may not be interested in this place, but it's pretty great if you can get through it. It's called Fly Lady and it supposedly can help people like us with 'clutter' problems. I was going to write to the creator at one time and ask her how it applied to people with severe depression issues, but I didn't.
http://www.flylady.net/
Hugs.